Which way are you going to go? Forwards, like a new flower? Or back, to where you came from?
Judgement is not about atonement for any transgressions. It’s about deciding, judging which way to go forward: the way of the past, where you may have not used as sound a judgement as you might, or the way forward, where you can see things more clearly and with a new eye.
Let yourself blossom.
Let yourself grow.
You’ll know which way is the right one.